I’m Right, You’re Wrong – September 2003
I’m Right, You’re Wrong
September 2003
I have wanted to go to a booby-bar before but my partner doesn’t want to go. Is it weird for girls to go and see a bunch of other girls with their tops off? It is completely innocent and I think it would be fun for the both of us!
I wonder why your partner shies away from going to a strip club with his or her significant other. That would be the first place I’d look in trying to figure out this dilemma.
I’m Right, You’re Wrong
September 2003
I have wanted to go to a booby-bar before but my partner doesn’t want to go. Is it weird for girls to go and see a bunch of other girls with their tops off? It is completely innocent and I think it would be fun for the both of us!
I wonder why your partner shies away from going to a strip club with his or her significant other. That would be the first place I’d look in trying to figure out this dilemma. Going to a “booby-bar†together can be a fun, stimulating activity for couples and I don’t consider it “weird†for girls to want to see other girls with their tops off. In fact, most women are at least a little bisexual and their boyfriends or husbands do little to discourage that fact. If your partner doesn’t mind you going without him/her, then alleviate your curiosity if nothing else. After that, I doubt you’re going to want to make it a regular activity since it’s actually a fairly boring, mundane and expensive hobby.
Recently, I was going down for the first time on my new girlfriend. After I was finished, I moved up to kiss her. She turned her head away and I asked her what was wrong. She said she thought that was gross and asked me to brush my teeth first. Let me tell you, it was a huge turn off and now I don’t know what to do since I love going down on a woman and don’t want to pause in the middle of sex to brush my teeth. Any ideas?
First off, I think it’s completely ridiculous for a woman to consider it “gross†to kiss after oral sex. After all, their partner has just been nose deep in that same “grossness.†If there’s anything I hate, it’s a double standard. However, if you really want to be with this woman and are looking for a compromise, I suggest you either refrain from kissing after you go down on her, or wait until the end to perform your wonderful miracles upon her. I don’t like having “rules†for such things during sex, so it’s completely understandable if you prefer to move on and find a woman who’s less inhibited about her own bodily fluids.
My boyfriend told me that he really wants me to give him a blowjob. I keep putting him off, hoping all the other things I’m doing will be good enough to keep him satisfied, but I think he’s getting frustrated. The thing is, I keep telling him no because I don’t think I’m any good at blowjobs so I don’t really like doing it. I’m embarrassed to tell him, though, and I feel guilty because he goes down on me every time. What should I do?
There aren’t many good reasons to be embarrassed about discussing your sex life with your partner. In fact, I think there’s a huge lack of sexual communication and it’s disappointing to know people may be missing out on even better sex because of it. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him why you’ve been evading the oral pleasure he so richly deserves. Believe me, he’ll be relieved and I’m sure he’ll have no problem instructing you on the finer points of knob polishing. Besides, blowjobs are kinda like pizza. Even bad blowjobs are still pretty good.
I masturbate at least once a day. Do you think there’s anything wrong with jerking one out that often?
Hell no. Keep on keepin’ on.